On Breastfeeding

Yes, I am going to type it here, because for once I don't have to hold back the truth I feel. Young mothers everywhere who were told they had to switch their baby to formula or who had been shamed out of doing what's best for your child by breastfeeding a minimum of 12-24 months (as recommended by the Pediatrics assoc. folk), you are wrong. For all those who tell me their body just wouldn't make any milk, you are wrong. You created your own problem, you succumbed to other people telling you what your body was NOT capable of doing.

I read an article today that was rather acerbic in regards to society and it's effect on breastfeeding women. As a mother of 4 successfully extended-breastfed children, I can say I would never have it any other way! Everything I list here is the absolute truth, google it if you want!

1. Mammals have been producing milk to support their infants for many millenia, why would that suddenly change in less than a century?! Humans ARE mammals.

2. Breastfed children have superior brain function. Just ask my 2 straight-A kids. (because breastmilk contains HUMAN proteins that support brain growth)

3. Colostrum (the first milk that comes in after birth) is absolutely essential to seal the intestine and provide immunity to the newborn. Breastmilk also supports healthy immune function. It is true that breastfed babies have fewer ear infections and less incidence of colic.

4. Ladies, let's face reality, no matter what you do, your breasts will not look 20 forever. Why not trade in for something everlasting?

5. Yes, breastfeeding will hurt initially. It is not instinctive anymore. And with prior generations having started this whole mess in the first place, you can expect it to be hard to find support. DON'T GIVE UP!! Get help with technique, and get your SO on board for exclusive breastfeeding for at least the first 6 months, anything less will ultimately result in early weaning.

6. Resist the temptation, don't even bring formula into your home. If you give yourself no other options, your body will adjust.

7. When your baby cries, check the diaper first, then offer a breast! They don't cry to annoy, there is nearly always a reason.

8. Remember that every drop of milk you put in your baby's mouth that is not produced by you will be that much less milk your body will produce! Yep!! You read that right, the body WILL adjust to your baby's needs, and that includes decreasing supply and eventually drying up if you offer your baby anything other than your milk from your body (or pump it out).

9. Remember that baby is the most efficient 'machine' at getting the milk out, pump if you have to, but don't use it as a substitute.

10. Do NOT give a baby a pacifier or bottle before they are 6 weeks of age! It can and may cause confusion. After 6 weeks I've rarely had a problem getting a baby to accept a bottle. Pacifiers are tougher, but be persistent and consistent if that's what you want. Waiting until 8 or 10 weeks is even better.

Finally, the 3 best reasons to breastfeed your infant:
- Always available
- Always the right temperature
- The cat can't get it!!!

Also remember that 50 years of research can NEVER replace 50 million years of evolution!

Cuddle your nurslings and rejoice in the fact that NO ONE else in the entire world can give your baby what you can! And remember they aren't little for long. You'll be proud you hung in there when they are older.